Caring for aging parents

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My mom’s house has finally been rented. A new family is moving in next week, and that’s a huge relief. It’s also been quite a process since moving her out two and a half years ago. We did nothing for three months, then hired someone to help us with an estate sale. Thus started the [...]

My Crack House

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Convenience store = Crack house? As I was buying a candy bar at the “convenience store”/gas station, I was struck by the similarities between a crack house and a convenience store. I was surrounded by all the legal vises. There was tobacco of all sorts, soda, donuts, candy, chips, coffee, energy drinks, etc. etc. Wow [...]

Breaking up is hard to do!

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My guess is that some of you have heard the song “Breaking Up is Hard to Do” by Neil Sedaka. Ugh and I am here to tell you  – IT IS HARD TO DO! I have not talked to my “soon-to-be” ex-boyfriend yet about “the end” and I am dreading it. This decision did not [...]

Don’t ignore or obsess about fixing signs of aging, bring more focus to your fabulous features

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My client and I were meeting a reporter for lunch 20 years ago. The reporter and we’d never met, so I described my client and myself: “We’re in our 30s, blonde, … .”  She responded: “I’m in my 50s, and my face is melting into my neck.” I was stunned and not sure what to [...]

Weekly Fuel: Be a great “me” before “we”

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I recently shared that I joined Match.com in search of someone, with whom, I could potentially live the rest of life. In the meantime, I do consider myself as someone who is self-sufficient and leads a “pretty” fulfilling life as a single person. However, I do know that having a counterpart that keeps me “on [...]

I’m dissatisfied with my life…

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Well, I was perfectly content [roof over my head; kids are healthy, seemingly bright and happy; I don’t live in a war-torn, third world country etc.]. That is, until I checked out my Facebook News Feed. Suddenly, all that was good now seems kind of crappy… Scroll, scroll, scroll… Oh look, the Stanwycks are on [...]

Sticking to a fitness program

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Have you ever started a new fitness program and then had trouble sticking with it as the time goes on? If you haven’t, you are a part of the minority. It takes effort and determination to stick to a fitness program. Some people can remain committed to their fitness programs just as though it was [...]

Clothes encounters

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There have been several posts and podcast discussions on the site about women and beauty and feeling good in your own skin. I’ve been thinking about it a lot since the new season of What Not To Wear started last month, a show that I’m completely addicted to. People who know me might think this [...]

Break out of the parking lot; it’s time for a new job!

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We all would like some further explicit direction on when it is time to move on to new challenges at work. At least I would. As I was lamenting to one of my dear friends who also happens to be a life and career coach a month or so ago, I was sharing with her [...]

My clothes don’t define me

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How do you maintain your femininity wearing a suit? I choose to feel like a woman, dress like a woman, act like a woman; I will get the job done being a strong, empowered, woman in or out of a suit.  We might be working in a man’s world, but I am just fine showing [...]